Stop Carrying What You Were Never Meant to Keep

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Let me ask you something honest: what have you been carrying around that you know has no business being in your life anymore?

A while back, I was helping clean out a rental house. The moment I opened the front door, I knew this was going to take a while. Boxes everywhere. Bags on the floor. Stuff in every corner. So I grabbed a garbage bag and headed to one of the bedrooms. The first thing I picked up felt strange — and when I looked closer, I found stuffing with a sell-by date of 2015. Over ten years expired. And here's the thing: whoever lived there hadn't just kept it — they had moved with it. It made the boxes. It made the trip.

Then I opened the freezer. Bag after bag of imitation crab, also expired by years. At some point, you can't even eat it. It's not even real crab in the first place — and now it's been sitting there for a decade. The only thing it can do at that point is poison you.

As I stood there with my garbage bag, I felt something stir in me. I believe the Holy Spirit wants to walk into your life with that same garbage bag and say: This stuff has got to go.

The Weight of Unconfessed Sin

This past Sunday, we continued our series How to Be Well, walking through the steps of our recovery ministry, Regen. We landed in Psalm 32, written by King David — an adulterer, a liar, and a murderer who was also called a man after God's own heart. How can both be true? One word: grace.

David describes what life felt like when he kept his sin hidden:

"For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer." — Psalm 32:3-4

You know that feeling of stepping outside in a Texas summer and having the heat just suck the energy right out of you? David says that's what unconfessed sin felt like in his soul. Groaning. Aching. Dragging.

I'm confident some of you know exactly what he means. You've manufactured an image that looks like everything is fine — but when you're alone in your car or lying awake at night, you feel that weight. The question is: what do you do with it?

Step One: Take Inventory of Your Sin

David writes in verse 2: "Blessed is the man against whom the Lord counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit." No hidden things. Everything brought into the light. That's where freedom lives.

But to get there, you have to start taking inventory — going through the closet, checking the attic of your soul, counting up what you've been carrying year after year. The resentment toward your sister. The fear of failure. The sexual sin from high school. The addiction nobody knows about.

This isn't a fun process, and it's not a fast one. But here's what makes it powerful: the purpose of inventory isn't just to show you that you sinned — it's to show you why you sinned. As you write things out, you start seeing patterns. You start identifying the idols underneath the behavior.

When I went through this process myself, I realized that my anger toward a critical comment on social media wasn't really about him — it was about my idol of approval. And my refusal to buy a $5 water bottle for my very pregnant wife at a concert? That wasn't frugality. That was my love of money and control revealing itself.

You can't repent of sin you refuse to recognize.

Step Two: Confess Your Sin

Once you've taken inventory, David shows us what comes next:

"I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover my iniquity; I said, 'I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,' and you forgave the iniquity of my sin." — Psalm 32:5

Here's the beautiful truth: you only have two options with your sin. You can cover it — keep it in the dark, hope no one finds it — or he can cover it. Sin grows in the dark the way mold and bacteria do: silently, destructively. But when you bring it into the light, 1 John 1:7 promises: "The blood of Jesus his Son purifies us from all sin."

Maybe you've tried bringing your sin to someone before and were met with anger, shame, or awkward distance. Your heavenly Father is different. Whenever you bring your sin to him, you will only ever be met with one thing: abundant forgiveness.

And James 5:16 takes it a step further: "Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed." I'll be honest — when our pastor first introduced confessing sin in life groups, I pushed back hard. That wasn't something I wanted to do. But now I do it weekly with my guys, and I can tell you from experience: healing is on the other side of confession.

Step Three: Repent of Your Sin

Confession says I was wrong. Repentance says I'm changing direction.

After David confesses, God responds with this:

"I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you." — Psalm 32:8

God doesn't meet you with anger or frustration. He says: I'm going to lead you out of your sin, and my eye will be on you every step of the way. That's the kindness of your Father.

But repentance requires actually changing — not just confessing the same thing week after week while keeping all the same habits and rhythms. Verse 9 warns against being like a stubborn mule that has to be dragged along. Real repentance means staying near Jesus no matter where he leads, and putting things in your life that keep you close to him.

When you do that, look at what changes. David started this psalm with groaning — he ended it with shouts of joy. He started dried up — he ended surrounded by steadfast love. He started in silence — he ended in rejoicing. That transformation is available to you too.

Freedom Is a Person, Not a Program

I want to be clear about something: freedom isn't ultimately found through a program — it's found through a person. The person of Jesus Christ, who lived a perfect life, died in your place, and rose again three days later. He saw your sin before you were born — your anger, your addiction, your shame — and he sent his Son not in spite of those things, but because of them.

If you're ready to stop carrying what you were never meant to keep, here's where to start: take an inventory of your sin this week. We've made the Regen workbook available to you — scan the QR code in the bulletin or grab the link at your seat. It's best done on a laptop, and it's even better done in community.

And speaking of community — if you've never heard of Regen, our Monday night recovery ministry here at Harris Creek, I want to personally invite you. This is where people just like you are finding freedom from the things they've carried for years. Join us.

You don't have to keep carrying it. Lay it down.

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