Small Group Deep Study Guide

Becoming A Person Of the Word Part 1

Rock City Fellowship Jason May

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This small group deep study guide draws directly from Jason May's sermon “Becoming A Person Of the Word Part 1” so you can keep engaging with the message all week. Read, reflect, and share it with your small group or friends.

DEEP-DIVE SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE

Based on: Becoming a Person of the Word: Why Proverbs? Primary Text: Proverbs 1:1–6; 2:1–9 Supporting Text: Luke 24:27; Matthew 22:23–29 Time: 90–120 minutes


LEADER PREPARATION

(Read before your group meets)

Overview: This session explores why the book of Proverbs is uniquely designed to make us people of God's Word. Howard Tryon argues that Proverbs isn't just a collection of wise sayings — it is a divinely crafted curriculum in discernment, meaning, and biblical understanding. The sermon introduces three reasons Proverbs equips us to understand Scripture, focusing primarily on the first two: Proverbs teaches us to discern and to discern meaning.

Big Idea: The book of Proverbs was purposefully written to train us in the kind of deep, penetrating discernment that produces genuine understanding of God, His Word, and how to live.

Essential Background:

  • The Hebrew word biyn (bean) — translated "discernment" — appears 34 times in Proverbs and is always connected to a specific object. Discernment in Proverbs isn't a vague spiritual feeling; it's active, focused comprehension of something real.
  • Proverbs 1:1–6 contains five purpose statements (infinitives) that tell us exactly why Solomon wrote the book. Understanding these purposes changes how we read every proverb that follows.
  • Biblical "fear of the Lord" carries a richer meaning than modern readers assume — it includes genuine reverence, moral sobriety, and even holy terror before a God of absolute holiness and justice.

Preparation Checklist:

  • Read Proverbs 1:1–6 and 2:1–9 twice, slowly
  • Review the Key Word Studies below before the meeting
  • Think through your own answers to at least three discussion questions
  • Pray for each group member by name

Facilitator Encouragement: You don't need to be a Bible scholar to lead this discussion well. Your job is to ask good questions, listen carefully, and keep the conversation moving. The group will discover things together that none of you would find alone. Trust the process — and trust the Spirit.


OPENING

(5–10 minutes)

Icebreaker Question:

Think of a time you were confident you understood something — a situation, a relationship, a decision — and later realized you had completely misread it. What did that experience teach you about how you approach understanding things?

Allow 2–3 people to share briefly. This question surfaces the human experience of misinterpretation and sets up the sermon's core concern: that we can misread Scripture the same way.


TEACHING TIME

(15–20 minutes)

Leader: Share the following content conversationally. You don't need to read it word-for-word — just hit the main points and make it your own.


HISTORICAL & CULTURAL CONTEXT

(5–7 minutes)

Proverbs is part of a larger body of ancient literature called Wisdom Literature, which also includes Job, Ecclesiastes, and several Psalms. In the ancient Near East, wisdom literature was a serious academic and spiritual discipline — not casual advice, but a structured approach to understanding how the world works under God's governance.

Solomon wrote the core of Proverbs during the 10th century BC, likely for two audiences: young men being trained for royal service and leadership, and the broader covenant community of Israel. The opening six verses function as a formal prologue — a literary device common in ancient wisdom texts — that announces the book's purpose before a single proverb is given. Ancient readers would have recognized this structure immediately.

Here's what's remarkable: Solomon doesn't just say "read this and get wise." He gives five specific purposes — five reasons this book exists — all framed as infinitives: to know, to discern, to receive, to give, to understand. This is a curriculum, not a collection. Proverbs is designed to produce something in its reader.


KEY WORD STUDIES

(5–7 minutes)

"Discernment" / "Understand" — Hebrew: biyn (bean)

This is the dominant intellectual word in Proverbs, appearing 34 times. Scholar Bruce Waltke describes biyn as "the act of considering something with the senses in such a way that understanding about the object takes place within" — meaning you don't just know about something, you acquire it, you possess it mentally. Think of the difference between reading a recipe and actually tasting the dish. Biyn is the tasting. Every time Proverbs uses this word, it's connected to a specific object — God, righteousness, justice, the words of Scripture. Biblical discernment is always aimed at something concrete.

"Understanding" (in the phrase "sayings of understanding") — Hebrew: binah

Related to biyn but distinct. Binah carries the idea of precision, correctness of definition, and meaning. Where biyn emphasizes the process of comprehending, binah emphasizes arriving at the right meaning. Proverbs 1:2 says the book was written so we might "discern the sayings of binah" — the sayings that carry true, precise meaning. Applied to Scripture: this is the word that says God's Word has a definite, discernible meaning, and we can actually get to it.

"Wisdom" — Hebrew: hokhmah (translated in the sermon as "performance skill")

Hokhmah in the ancient world was used of craftsmen, artisans, and skilled workers — people who knew how to do something excellently. When applied to living, it means the skill of navigating life with excellence. Biblical wisdom isn't primarily intellectual — it's applied. Proverbs promises to give you the craft of living well.


IMPORTANT CROSS-REFERENCES

(3–5 minutes)

  • Luke 24:27 — After the resurrection, Jesus walks the Emmaus road and "beginning with Moses and with all the prophets, explained to them the things concerning himself in all the Scriptures." This is the ultimate model of biblical discernment: all of Scripture points to Christ, and understanding Scripture means seeing him in it.

  • Matthew 22:23–29 — Jesus rebukes the Sadducees for misinterpreting Scripture about the resurrection. His diagnosis: "You are mistaken, not understanding the Scriptures or the power of God." Misinterpretation isn't just an intellectual error — it's a relational failure with the God who wrote the book.

  • Psalm 119:130 — "The unfolding of your words gives light; it gives understanding to the simple." The word "understanding" here is biyn — the same word Proverbs uses. Understanding Scripture is described as light entering.

  • 2 Timothy 3:16–17 — Paul's classic statement on inspiration (theopneustos — "God-breathed") connects directly to the sermon's claim that Scripture is revealed, inspired, infallible, inerrant, and authoritative.


SCRIPTURE READING & OBSERVATION

(10–15 minutes)

Read aloud: Proverbs 1:1–6 and Proverbs 2:1–9

Suggestion: Have one person read from the ESV or NASB, then another read from the NIV or NLT. The differences in translation often open up the text.

Observation Questions (no discussion yet — just notice):

  1. What words or phrases appear more than once across these two passages?
  2. What surprises you, or what do you notice that you've never seen before?
  3. What questions do these verses raise for you?
  4. In Proverbs 2:1–4, count the "if" statements. What pattern do you notice?

DEEP DIVE DISCUSSION

(40–50 minutes)

SECTION A: Understanding the Text

1. Proverbs 1:2–6 contains five stated purposes for the book. Look at them again: to know, to discern, to receive, to give, to understand. What kind of person does Solomon seem to be writing for? Does anything about this list surprise you?

2. The sermon highlighted that biyn (discernment) always has an object — it's always aimed at something specific. In Proverbs 2:5–9, what are the objects of discernment? What does it tell us that "the fear of the Lord" and "righteousness, justice, and equity" are listed alongside each other?

[Leader Tip: If the group gets stuck, ask: "What do these objects have in common? What kind of life would someone have if they genuinely understood all of these things?" This helps move from observation to implication.]**

3. Jesus told the Sadducees they were "mistaken, not understanding the Scriptures" (Matthew 22:29). The sermon used this as evidence that Scripture can be misinterpreted. What do you think is the difference between honest misunderstanding and willful misreading? Does the distinction matter?

4. Look at the condition-and-consequence structure of Proverbs 2:1–9: "If you receive… if you cry out… if you seek… then you will discern." What does this structure suggest about how biblical understanding is obtained? Is it passive or active?


SECTION B: Theological Connections

5. The sermon connected "the fear of the Lord" to the two Great Awakenings, noting that genuine revival came from a robust, even terrifying, understanding of God's holiness. How does a thin or sentimental view of God affect how we read and apply Scripture?

[Leader Tip: This question can go deep or stay surface-level depending on the group. If it stays shallow, press gently: "What would it actually look like to read the Bible with a more serious view of who God is? How would that change your reading of, say, the Sermon on the Mount — or Revelation?"]**

6. The sermon described Scripture as "revealed, inspired, infallible, inerrant, and authoritative." These are significant theological claims. Why do you think it matters how we view Scripture before we even open it? How might a person's assumptions about the Bible shape what they find in it?

7. Luke 24:27 describes Jesus explaining himself from "all the Scriptures" — and the disciples said their hearts burned within them. What does this suggest about what it feels like when genuine discernment of Scripture happens? Have you ever experienced something like that? What was the context?


SECTION C: Contemporary Application

8. The sermon offered a sobering diagnosis: "Biblical indifference, scriptural ignorance, theological illiteracy, even Christian malpractice permeates our American culture, both within and without the church." Do you agree with that assessment? Where do you see evidence of it — and where do you see signs of hope?

[Leader Tip: This question can become politically charged or overly negative. Redirect if needed: "Let's focus on what this means for us — not culture in general. Where do we personally experience biblical illiteracy, even in our own reading?"]**

9. The sermon used the example of Genesis 9 being misused to justify racial hierarchy as evidence that misinterpreting Scripture "mars the image of God, disturbs our Christian experience, and injures human enterprise." Can you think of other examples — historical or contemporary — where misreading Scripture has caused real harm? What safeguards help us avoid this?

10. Proverbs 2:4 says to seek wisdom "as silver" and "as hidden treasures." What does that level of pursuit actually look like in a busy modern life? What would it mean for your week to treat Scripture like something worth searching for?

[Leader Tip: Don't let this become abstract. Ask people to name a specific time slot, habit, or practice. The goal is concrete response, not general agreement that the Bible is important.]**

11. The sermon's opening illustration compared most Americans' understanding of Scripture to a student who thought he knew Spanish but couldn't actually communicate. Honestly — where on the spectrum from "Brandon" to "person of the Word" would you place yourself right now? What's one thing holding you back from going deeper?


PERSONAL APPLICATION

(15–20 minutes)

Leader: Give the group 2–3 minutes of quiet reflection before inviting responses. These questions are personal — not everyone needs to share everything.

Reflection Questions:

  1. Of the three objects of discernment highlighted in the sermon — knowing God personally, understanding what is righteous and just, and grasping the meaning of Scripture — which one feels most underdeveloped in your own life right now?

  2. Proverbs 2:2 says to "make your ear attentive to wisdom" and "incline your heart to understanding." The word incline suggests intentional positioning — leaning in. What would it mean for you to incline your heart toward Scripture this week, rather than just fitting it in when convenient?

  3. The sermon closed with the promise that Proverbs 2:1–4 contains "the most definitive passage in all of Scripture for how to understand the Bible." What is your honest response to that claim? Does it create hunger, skepticism, or something else?


THIS WEEK CHALLENGE

Choose one of the following:

  • Read Proverbs 2:1–9 every day this week. Each day, ask one question: What is God saying to me about discernment today? Write down one observation per day.
  • Identify one area of Scripture you've always found confusing or avoided. Bring it to the group next week and commit to exploring it together.
  • Ask someone you respect spiritually: "What has made you a person of the Word? What practices actually work?" Report back what you learn.

PRAYER & CLOSING

(10 minutes)

Suggested Prayer Focus:

Pray specifically around three things that emerged from Proverbs 2:

  1. Receptivity — "Lord, help me receive your Word rather than just encounter it."
  2. Hunger — "Give us the kind of desire for Scripture that Proverbs 2:4 describes — searching like we're looking for treasure."
  3. Discernment — "Teach us to understand you, your righteousness, and your Word more accurately."

Prayer Option 1 — Conversational: Invite anyone who wants to pray aloud to do so freely around these three themes.

Prayer Option 2 — Pairs: Break into pairs. Each person shares one thing they want to understand better about God or Scripture, and their partner prays for them specifically.

Closing Word for the Leader:

Remind your group that this study is just the beginning. The sermon introduced three reasons Proverbs equips us to understand Scripture — and the next sessions will go deeper into Proverbs 2:1–4 as the most definitive passage in Scripture for becoming a person of the Word. Encourage your group to keep reading Proverbs this week with new eyes — not just for wisdom about life, but as a curriculum in how to understand the God who wrote it.


Guide prepared for small group use. Primary texts: Proverbs 1:1–6; 2:1–9. Supporting texts: Luke 24:27; Matthew 22:23–29; Psalm 119:130; 2 Timothy 3:16–17.

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