The New Humanity: How the Cross Tears Down the Walls We Keep Building

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Have you ever noticed how tired everyone seems? Not just physically tired — but weary from the constant friction of living in a world that seems to be fracturing into a thousand pieces. I feel it too. And this past Sunday, I couldn't shake the sense that God had something urgent to say about it.

We've been working through our Blueprint series in Ephesians, and as we closed out Part One — Found: Our Identity in Christ — Paul brought us face to face with one of the most ancient and persistent problems in human history: the hostility we build between ourselves and other people.

We Were Never Meant to Build These Walls

Paul opens Ephesians 2:11-12 with a command that's easy to skip over: remember. He wants us to do some honest, even painful, memory work.

"Wherefore remember that ye being in time past, Gentiles in the flesh... that at that time ye were without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers from the covenants of promise, having no hope, and without God in this world." — Ephesians 2:11-12

Every single one of us was once on the outside. An alien. A stranger. Someone without access.

And here's the hard truth: the religious system of Jesus' day had taken that reality and weaponized it. By the time Herod's temple was built, the religious leaders had constructed an entire court — the Court of the Gentiles — where outsiders were permitted to stand, but forbidden from entering the actual place of worship. A stone inscription posted at the entrance read: No foreigner is to go beyond this point. Whoever is caught doing so will have himself to blame for his death which will follow.

But this was never God's design. When Solomon dedicated the first temple, he prayed specifically for the stranger and the foreigner — that God would hear their prayers so that everyone on earth would know his name. God's heart has always been global. His plan from the beginning was that all nations would be blessed through his people.

So when Jesus walked into the temple courts and overturned tables, he wasn't just upset about commerce. He was quoting his Father's words with holy grief:

"It is written, My house shall be called the house of prayer; but ye have made it a den of thieves." — Matthew 21:13

And in Mark's account, he adds three words that change everything: for all nations.

The Hostility Jesus Absorbed

Here's the uncomfortable mirror that passage holds up for us. There is no stone temple anymore. So who is the temple today?

We are.

And if we're honest, most of us have our own version of that Court of the Gentiles built right into our hearts — invisible walls, carefully sculpted schedules, and quietly curated friend groups designed to keep certain people at a comfortable distance. People who vote differently. People who hurt us. Family members we haven't spoken to in years. Maybe even someone sitting across the aisle in our own church.

But here is the stunning, world-altering answer God gave to all of this:

"But now in Christ Jesus ye who sometimes were far off are made nigh by the blood of Christ. For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition between us, having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make in himself of twain one new man, so making peace." — Ephesians 2:13-15

Notice what Paul says: Jesus doesn't just negotiate peace. He is our peace. On the cross, Jesus absorbed every ounce of human hatred, tribalism, religious pride, and hostility into his own body. And when he died, that wall — the spiritual warning sign that said you don't belong here — was torn down forever.

So why do we keep trying to rebuild it?

You Are the Temple Now

This is where Paul's letter takes a breathtaking turn:

"Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and of the household of God... in whom all the building fitly framed together groweth unto an holy temple in the Lord: in whom ye also are builded together for an habitation of God through the Spirit." — Ephesians 2:19-22

God didn't replace Herod's stone building with another physical building. He replaced it with us — together. A living temple, growing like an organism, made not of walls to keep people out, but of people to bring everyone in.

Every person you make eye contact with this week — whether they believe what you believe or not — bears the image of God. That's what theologians call common grace. But when image bearers are brought together in Christ, something even more profound happens: God himself comes to dwell there.

The old temple had walls to keep people out. This new temple is made of people to bring everyone in.

Make Room at the Table

I want to close with a story that stayed with me all week. Decades ago, during a time of intense racial division, a young white man raised with deep-seated prejudice walked into one of Dr. John Perkins' community meetings. He sat in the back, defensive and angry. After the meeting, Dr. Perkins didn't ignore him or call him out. He walked straight over, looked him in the eye, and invited him to lunch.

No lecture. No debate. Just a table.

Months later, that young man said: "I went there expecting a fight and I found a family. The wall I had spent my whole life building in my heart didn't get knocked down by an argument. It dissolved because someone treated me like I belonged at God's table."

That is the new humanity in action.

So here's my challenge for you this week: make room at your table for someone who has only ever felt a wall from you. It starts in your heart — praying honestly, beginning not with what they did to you, but with this: God, I know this person is made in your image, and I love the image of God in them.

Then, when you have the opportunity, make room at your actual table. Sit across from them. Share a meal. Let the cross do what it was always meant to do.

Jesus didn't just tear down the wall between us and God. He tore down every wall between us and each other. It's time we started living like it.

If this message stirred something in you, I'd encourage you to watch the full sermon and share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you're looking for a place to wrestle with these ideas in community, we'd love to have you join one of our midweek Connect Groups — it's one of the best places I know to put this kind of teaching into practice together.

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