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Asking for a Friend: Hard Questions Answered

Life Church · EDMOND, OK Preached Sunday, Oct 4, 2026 1 John 1:9

In the final message of the 'Asking for a Friend' series, Pastor Craig Groeschel tackles some of the most personal and controversial questions submitted by thousands of Life Church members, grounding each answer in Scripture rather than popular opinion. He affirms the sanctity of life in the womb, offers grace to those carrying regret over past sexual sin or abortion, and explains why the church prioritizes biblical teaching over political commentary. The message closes with three practical questions to help believers discern God's voice: does it align with God's word, does wise counsel confirm it, and does it make you more like Jesus.

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“A Note to Facilitators: This week's sermon covered several sensitive topics, marijuana and alcohol, abortion, sexual past, and hearing God's voice. People in your group may carry personal experiences related to any of these areas.”

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“This session explores the unifying question beneath a wide range of difficult topics, who or what gets the final word in our lives? The sermon moved through questions about substance use, abortion, sexual past,”

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“Some questions are easy to avoid. Others follow you home, sit with you at the kitchen table, and keep you up at night. Over the past four weeks, you submitted more than 4,000 of those”

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“Every question, about marijuana, abortion, sexual past, hearing God, was really asking the same thing: Who gets the final word in your life? Is it your desires? Your fears? What culture says? What feels right in the moment? Or is it God?”

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“Now, let's slow this one down before I answer the question. Some people say, 'Well, this is a political issue.' This is not just political. This is spiritual.”

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Questions this sermon answers

Is recreational marijuana use okay for Christians?

The Bible doesn't mention marijuana directly, but calls believers to be sober-minded and filled only by the Holy Spirit. Since recreational marijuana is typically used to alter your mind and thinking, it conflicts with the biblical call to self-control and honoring God with your body and mind.

Can God forgive me for having an abortion?

Yes. 1 John 1:9 promises that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Romans 8 adds that there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus. You may carry grief, but you don't have to live in condemnation.

How do I know if a thought or decision is from God or just my own desire?

Ask three questions: Does it align with God's Word? God won't lead you to do something Scripture forbids. Does wise, godly counsel confirm it? And does it make you more like Jesus? If a thought passes all three tests, it is more likely to be God's guidance rather than your own wishes.

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