Small Group Discussion Guide

A Church With A Future

New Castle Free Will Baptist Church

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This small group discussion guide draws directly from the sermon “A Church With A Future” so you can keep engaging with the message all week. Read, reflect, and share it with your small group or friends.

Small Group Discussion Guide

A Church with a Future: Open Doors, Real Power, and Holding Fast

Based on Revelation 3:7–13


"I have set before you an open door which no one is able to shut." — Revelation 3:8


📋 GUIDE AT A GLANCE

Section Time
Welcome & Icebreaker 5–10 min
Scripture Reading 5 min
Discussion Questions 35–45 min
Personal Application 10–15 min
Prayer Focus 5–10 min
Total 60–85 min

Optional Deep Dive questions are available at the end for groups with extra time or who want to go further.


🔍 OVERVIEW

For the Facilitator — Read or summarize this for your group

In this sermon, we explored what it means to be a church with a future by looking at Jesus' message to the ancient church in Philadelphia (Revelation 3:7–13). The pastor drew three powerful parallels between that early congregation and our church today: God places open doors of opportunity before us, we may feel like we have little power — but we are far from powerless, and we are called to hold fast to God's Word and not give up. The central message is both a challenge and an encouragement: God is not finished with us. He has a future planned, and he invites us to step through the doors he opens, trust in his strength, and keep holding on.


🧊 ICEBREAKER (5–10 minutes)

Choose one of the following to open your time together:

Option A (lighter, fun)

"Think of a time when a door opened for you — a new job, a move, a relationship, an unexpected opportunity. What did it feel like to stand in front of that open door?"

Option B (more reflective)

"The pastor mentioned he hated history class because he couldn't memorize the dates — but later came to love history. Is there something you used to avoid or dislike that you've grown to appreciate? What changed?"

[Leader Tip] Don't rush this section. A good icebreaker builds trust and warms up the room. Let 3–4 people share briefly. You don't need to go around the whole group — just get the conversation moving naturally.


📖 SCRIPTURE READING (5 minutes)

Ask a volunteer to read the passage aloud. Encourage everyone to follow along.


Primary Passage: Revelation 3:7–13

"And to the angel of the church in Philadelphia write: 'The words of the holy one, the true one, who has the key of David, who opens and no one will shut, who shuts and no one opens.

I know your works. Behold, I have set before you an open door, which no one is able to shut. I know that you have but little power, and yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name.

Behold, I will make those of the synagogue of Satan who say that they are Jews and are not, but lie — behold, I will make them come and bow down before your feet, and they will learn that I have loved you.

Because you have kept my word about patient endurance, I will keep you from the hour of trial that is coming on the whole world, to try those who dwell on the earth.

I am coming soon. Hold fast what you have, so that no one may seize your crown.

The one who conquers, I will make him a pillar in the temple of my God. Never shall he go out of it, and I will write on him the name of my God, and the name of the city of my God, the new Jerusalem, which comes down from my God out of heaven, and my own new name.

He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.'" — Revelation 3:7–13 (ESV)


Supporting Passages (referenced in the sermon)

"But I will stay in Ephesus until Pentecost, for a wide door for effective work has opened to me, and there are many adversaries." — 1 Corinthians 16:8–9 (ESV)

"What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?" — Romans 8:31–32 (ESV)

"And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." — Galatians 6:9 (ESV)

"Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful." — Hebrews 10:23 (ESV)


A Brief Note on Context: The church in Philadelphia was one of seven churches Jesus addressed in Revelation chapters 2–3. Unlike several of the others, Philadelphia received no rebuke — only encouragement and a promise. It was likely a small, ordinary congregation without great wealth or influence. Yet Jesus saw something in them worth celebrating: faithfulness. That's the church our pastor held up as a mirror for us to look into.


💬 DISCUSSION QUESTIONS (35–45 minutes)

Work through as many questions as time allows. Feel free to skip questions or linger where the conversation is richest. Questions are arranged from lighter to deeper.


THEME 1: Learning from the Past (8–10 minutes)

1. The pastor opened by talking about history — and the famous idea that "those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." When it comes to your own life (not just history class!), what's something you've learned from a past mistake or missed opportunity that has shaped how you make decisions today?

[Leader Tip] This question eases people in with a personal but not-too-vulnerable story. Most people have a relatable answer. If the group is quiet, share your own example first to model openness.


2. The pastor mentioned that the Old Testament is sometimes dismissed as "just history" — but he pushed back on that. In your own words, why do you think the stories and events of the Old Testament still matter for us today?

If helpful, consider: What does the Old Testament tell us about God's character? About human nature? About the future?


THEME 2: Open Doors (12–15 minutes)

3. Jesus tells the church in Philadelphia, "I have set before you an open door which no one is able to shut" (Revelation 3:8). The pastor described an open door as an "opportunity." What kinds of open doors — big or small — have you seen God place in front of you, your family, or your church? How did you know it was from God?

[Leader Tip] Encourage a variety of responses here — doors don't have to be dramatic. A conversation with a neighbor, a prompting to volunteer, a career change, a reconciliation — all count. This helps people see that God's open doors show up in ordinary life.


4. The pastor described two problems with open doors:

  • We have to actually walk through them to receive the blessing.
  • Not every open door is from God — some are counterfeits.

Which of these two challenges do you find harder to navigate in your own life, and why?

Follow-up if needed: What helps you discern whether an opportunity is from God or not?


5. Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 16:8–9 that a "wide door for effective work" had opened for him — but that there were also "many adversaries." What kinds of opposition, fear, or obstacles have you seen (in your own life or in the life of a church) make it harder to walk through a door God has opened? How do we keep moving forward anyway?


THEME 3: Little Power, Big God (8–10 minutes)

6. Jesus acknowledged that the church in Philadelphia had "but little power" — and yet he still opened a door for them and promised to bless them. Why do you think God so often works through people and communities that feel small, weak, or under-resourced?

Consider: Can you think of examples from Scripture or from your own experience where God used something small to accomplish something significant?

[Leader Tip] This is a great question for groups that may feel discouraged about their church's size or resources. Help people see that "little power" is not a disqualifier — it's actually a common starting point in Scripture. Point to examples like Gideon, David and Goliath, the feeding of the 5,000, or the early church in Acts.


7. The pastor told a story about a missionary whose car wouldn't start because the battery connection was loose. Once the wire was reconnected, the engine turned right over. He used this as a picture of our connection to God.

What does it look like, practically, to stay "connected" to God — especially during seasons when life feels draining or discouraging?

What habits, practices, or relationships help you maintain that connection?


THEME 4: Holding Fast (10–12 minutes)

8. "Hold fast what you have, so that no one may seize your crown" (Revelation 3:11). The pastor described two dimensions of holding fast:

  • Staying true to God and his Word
  • Not giving up

Which of these feels more challenging to you right now, and what makes it difficult?


9. Galatians 6:9 promises, "In due season we will reap, if we do not give up." Think about a time when you (or someone you know) almost gave up on something — a relationship, a calling, a season of faith — but kept going. What kept you holding on? What did you discover on the other side?

[Leader Tip] This question can surface deep and meaningful stories. Give people space to share. If someone shares something vulnerable, resist the urge to immediately jump to the next question — acknowledge what was shared before moving on. A simple "Thank you for sharing that" goes a long way.


10. The pastor ended with a direct question to the congregation: "This church has a future — are you committed to being a part of it?" What does commitment to a local church actually look like in day-to-day life? What's one way you could lean more fully into the life and future of this community?


🪞 PERSONAL APPLICATION (10–15 minutes)

These questions are more personal and reflective. You may want to give people a moment of quiet before sharing, or invite people to share only what they're comfortable with.


Reflect quietly on these questions, then share with the group as you feel led:

A. Open Door:

"Where might God be placing an open door in front of you right now — in your relationships, your work, your neighborhood, or your church involvement? What would it look like to take one step through it this week?"

B. Little Power:

"Is there an area of your life where you've been relying on your own strength rather than God's? What would it look like to surrender that area to him and trust that his power is enough?"

C. Hold Fast:

"Is there something — a commitment, a relationship, a calling, a conviction — that you've been tempted to let go of? What would it mean to hold fast to it for one more season?"


📅 THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE

Choose one (or more) of the following:

  • 🚪 Open Door: Pray each morning this week and ask God: "What door are you opening for me today? Give me the courage to walk through it." At the end of the week, write down what you noticed.

  • 🔋 Stay Connected: Identify one spiritual habit you've let slip (prayer, Scripture reading, worship, community) and commit to restarting it this week. Tell someone in your group so they can check in with you.

  • 🤝 Hold Fast Together: Reach out to one person — inside or outside your group — who may be struggling or discouraged. Encourage them with a text, a call, a visit, or a meal. Be the reminder they need to not give up.

  • 🏛️ Invest in the Church's Future: Pray specifically for your church this week — its leadership, its mission, its community. Ask God to show you one concrete way you can contribute to its future (giving, serving, inviting someone, volunteering).


🙏 PRAYER FOCUS (5–10 minutes)

Close your time together in prayer. You can pray as a group, in pairs, or have one person lead. Use the prompts below as a guide.


Suggested Prayer Topics:

  1. Gratitude — Thank God for the history of your church and the ways he has worked through it over the years.

  2. Open Doors — Ask God to make his open doors clear to your church and to each person in your group. Pray for discernment to know which doors are from him.

  3. Strength for the Small — Pray for anyone in your group who feels like they don't have enough — enough strength, enough resources, enough faith. Ask God to remind them that his power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

  4. Perseverance — Pray for anyone who is weary or tempted to give up — in their faith, their family, their church involvement, or their calling. Ask God to renew their strength.

  5. The Future — Close by praying boldly for the future of your church. Ask God to open the right doors, send the right people, and use this community for his glory.


Consider closing with this verse as a benediction:

"Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful." — Hebrews 10:23


🔬 OPTIONAL DEEP DIVE

For groups with extra time or who want to explore further


Deep Dive 1: The Seven Churches of Revelation

The church in Philadelphia is one of seven churches addressed in Revelation 2–3. Each received a unique message from Jesus — some were commended, some were corrected, some were warned severely.

Read Revelation 2:1–7 (the church in Ephesus) and compare it to Revelation 3:7–13 (Philadelphia).

  • What differences do you notice between Jesus' message to Ephesus and his message to Philadelphia?
  • What does the contrast between these two churches teach us about what God values most in a community of faith?
  • If Jesus were writing a letter to your small group or your church today, what do you think he might commend? What might he gently challenge?

Deep Dive 2: Power and Weakness in Scripture

The sermon highlighted that the church at Philadelphia had "little power" — and yet God worked mightily through them.

Read 2 Corinthians 12:7–10, where Paul writes about his own weakness:

"But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

  • What does it mean that God's power is "made perfect in weakness"? How does that reframe how we think about what a church (or a Christian) needs in order to be effective?
  • In what ways does our culture — even church culture — sometimes value strength, size, and resources in ways that contradict this passage?
  • How might embracing weakness actually free us to trust God more fully?

Deep Dive 3: What Does It Mean to "Hold Fast"?

The call to "hold fast" appears multiple times in the New Testament.

Compare these passages:

  • Revelation 3:11 — "Hold fast what you have, so that no one may seize your crown."
  • Hebrews 10:23 — "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful."
  • 1 Corinthians 15:1–2 — "Now I would remind you, brothers, of the gospel I preached to you, which you received, in which you stand, and by which you are being saved, if you hold fast to the word I preached to you."
  • What does each of these passages tell us about what we are to hold fast to?
  • What are the greatest threats today — culturally, spiritually, personally — to holding fast to our faith and convictions?
  • What does a community that "holds fast together" actually look like? How can we help each other hold on?

📚 ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

For personal study during the week

Scripture to Read and Reflect On:

  • Revelation 2–3 (all seven letters to the churches — read them as a set)
  • Isaiah 22:22 (the "key of David" background referenced in Revelation 3:7)
  • Romans 8:28–39 (God working all things together for those who love him)
  • Philippians 4:10–13 (contentment and strength through Christ)
  • Nehemiah 4–6 (a community that held fast and kept building despite opposition)

A Question to Sit With This Week:

"If God has truly placed an open door in front of this church — and in front of me — what is the one thing holding me back from stepping through it? And what would it look like to offer that thing to God?"


📝 FACILITATOR CHECKLIST

Before your group meets:

  • Read through the entire guide at least once
  • Read Revelation 3:7–13 and the supporting passages
  • Choose which discussion questions fit your group best (you don't have to use all of them)
  • Identify the icebreaker you'll use
  • Pray for each person in your group by name
  • Have Bibles or a Bible app available for those who need one
  • Print copies of the guide or share it digitally in advance

Remember: Your job as a facilitator is not to have all the answers — it's to create space for honest conversation and to help your group encounter God together. The best discussions often happen when the leader is willing to be vulnerable first.


This guide was prepared for small group use based on the sermon "A Church with a Future" (Revelation 3:7–13). Permission granted for local church use.

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