Home / Harris Creek Baptist Church / Forgiven People Forgive People

Forgiven People Forgive People

Harris Creek Baptist Church · Waco, TX Preached Sunday, Sep 13, 2026 Ephesians 4:32-5:1

In this message from Harris Creek Baptist Church, pastor Nate Hilgenkamp teaches that followers of Jesus are commanded to forgive others in the same way God has fully and finally forgiven them through the cross. Drawing on Colossians 2:13-14 and Ephesians 4:32-5:1, he explains that the debt of every sin was nailed to the cross, leaving no grounds for believers to withhold forgiveness from those who have wronged them. The sermon calls the church to follow the Holy Spirit daily, release bitterness before it takes root, and trust God to handle justice so that relationships can be genuinely healed.

Showcase - Harris Creek Sunday Morning | 11a |

Everything below came from one YouTube link.

Generated automatically the morning after this sermon was preached. Read every open card free. The locked ones get built when it’s your sermon.

9 pieces open to read · 18 more unlock with your own sermon

Sermon Insights

“Few preachers have the courage to walk onto a stage, pull out a cigarette, and let the room sit in discomfort long enough to make a theological point.”

Read the full insights report →

Video Clips 6 clips

Six sermon moments, automatically clipped, subtitled, and sized for Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube Shorts.

Unlock with your sermon →

5-Day Devotional 5 days

“Have you ever walked into a room carrying something heavy and hoped no one would notice? Most of us do it every week — not with luggage, but with unforgiveness.”

Read all 5 days of the devotional →

Small Group Discussion Guide

“Ephesians 4:32 says to forgive "as God in Christ forgave you." The pastor emphasized the tiny word "as" — meaning the standard for our forgiveness is God's forgiveness of us. What makes that standard feel impossible? What makes it feel possible?”

Open the discussion guide →

Instagram Posts 3 posts

Scroll-stopping captions, strategic hashtags, and posting strategy with best times to share.

Unlock with your sermon →

Sermon Quiz

“How does the pastor describe the difference between forgiveness and trust, using the illustration with James and his car?”

Take the sermon quiz →

Small Group Deep Study Guide

“Share with your group: Paul's letter to the Colossians was written to a church facing pressure from a blend of Jewish legalism and early Greek philosophy — a worldview that said spiritual progress was about”

Open the deep study guide →

Facebook Posts 3 posts

Algorithm-optimized posts with discussion prompts built to spark comments and reach beyond your followers.

Unlock with your sermon →

Individual Study Guide

“Paul's letter to the Ephesians divides neatly into two halves: chapters 1–3 establish theological foundations (who we are in Christ), while chapters 4–6 draw out ethical implications (how we therefore live).”

Start the individual study →

Social Posts for Pastor 3 posts

Ready-to-post messages written in the pastor's authentic voice. Copy, paste, connect.

Unlock with your sermon →

Pastor's Blog Post

“I want to ask you something before we get started: What's the most offensive thing someone could bring into a church service? I actually answered that question in a pretty dramatic way this past Sunday.”

Read the pastor's blog post →

Guest Blog Post

“While you look at this cigarette and think, 'who do I email?'... what offends God is that we, the forgiven people of God, would harbor unforgiveness, resentment, and bitterness towards anyone.”

Read the guest perspective →

Social Posts for Volunteers 3 posts

Talking points that let elders, deacons, and volunteer leaders share Sunday's message from their own accounts.

Unlock with your sermon →

Golden Moments

“We're offended by cigarettes in church when there's something so much more offensive to the heart of God that I would bet almost everybody brought in here this morning.”

See the golden moments →

Edit, Regenerate & Send

Fine-tune any piece, regenerate with one click, and send devotionals straight to your congregation's inboxes.

Unlock with your sermon →

Questions this sermon answers

How do I forgive someone who deeply hurt me and keeps hurting me?

This sermon teaches that forgiveness means releasing the debt to Jesus, not excusing the behavior. You entrust the sin to Christ—who either dealt with it at the cross or will at judgment day. Forgiveness and trust are separate: you forgive every time, but trust must be rebuilt through repentance and changed behavior.

Why is unforgiveness so serious for Christians?

The sermon argues that unforgiveness is spiritually like cancer—it defiles you and others. It gives Satan a foothold that becomes a stronghold, leads to relational death, and Jesus warns that those who withhold mercy will face judgment without mercy. Forgiven people are called to forgive as God forgave them.

How do I stop replaying what someone did to me and find freedom from bitterness?

The sermon suggests that when you remember their sin, remember your own—recognizing what Christ forgave you of makes forgiving others possible. Practically, pray for, give to, and bless the person who hurt you. This act of grace, empowered by the Holy Spirit, is described as the key that unlocks unforgiveness.

More sermons on Ephesians, forgiveness, holiness, community.

Browse the full Sermon Library →

MinistryHelper also works before you preach.

Submit your manuscript or notes and get 17 more pieces: kids, pre-teen, and teen ministry lessons synced to your sermon, a fill-in-the-blank sermon notes worksheet, a teaser email that fills seats, speaker notes, and more.

See everything MinistryHelper creates →

Your sermon belongs in here.

Watch it happen live. About a minute. Nothing to sign up for.